"There are 7 main reasons why we get hurt emotionally "

I realized that every succeeding pain really leaves a corresponding scars/wounds even if its physically ,mentally, or emotionally.I'm just wondering if it is possible to have wound without getting hurt :D 





INQUIRER LIFESTYLE BETA http://lifestyle.inquirer.net/wellness/wellness/view/20091201-239411/7-reasons-why-we-get-hurt (here's the original link) Marge C. Enriquez from Philippine Daily Inquirer write an article about the reasons why we get hurt EMOTIONALLY. Says London-based author and motivational speaker Mike George, ?We will never need to worry about being hurt by others as our average day carries very little physical threat. However, if we move to the mental and emotional level, there appears to be a different kind of possibility that we may get hurt. Our symptoms of hurt emerge as a result of blaming, complaining and accusing others for ?making me feel this way.? Is that because, like physical hurt, we are not strong enough or not powerful enough to protect ourselves, or is it because we feel we are at the mercy of other people and circumstances ... Do we need some kind of ?bouncer system? standing guard at the windows of our minds and at the doors of our heart??

There are 7 main reasons why we get hurt emotionally;
(although i know there's a lot of thing that can make us feel that way)

First; 
INSULTED

We are obviously feel strange when someone say something about you that makes euphemistic remarks about our personality. It decreasing our self esteem and confidence that making you more weak than you are before.

http://betterlivingrealty.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/insulted.jpg






Second;
OFFENDED

We are offended when someone is criticizing our own idea, beliefs, region etc. an offensive action that we get from others makes felt us wrath. The feeling of being insulted is almost the same as being offended the only difference was offence is often relates to something quite minor. Often UNINTENTIONAL that can be done by saying a word or by action.And insult is usually a lot more serious and sounds more INTENTIONAL.


http://www.sethskim.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/I-Am-Offended.jpg



Third;
LET DOWN

You will feel down when you can't get some supports from your friends and loved ones. Once our sorrow has waned, we hold on to a negative impression of them.

Forth;

BETRAYED
I have one word on this. DECEIVE.

                 Fifth;

Robbed

Did you experienced to be cheated??
 it feels like you are a bank and robber steal every cent of yours, and leave you nothing just a shocked face and empty safe. 

And you just want to cry and kick the ass of that shit who emptied your heart.

Sixth;

BROKEN PROMISES

Promises are like babies:  easy to make, hard to deliver.  

~Author Unknown










Seventh ;

EXCLUDED
That moment. Everyone knows except you. Like if your boyfriend was cheating on you and your friends knows what's happening and they are not telling you anything even they have they reasons on why they are not saying the truth, you will feel your out of the league, out of place. The sensitive feelings are heightened when there?s the thought, ?What?s wrong with me??



DO YOU ALSO FEEL THIS THINGS???

READ SOME SELF IMPROVEMENT ON INQUIRER LIFESTYLE BETA (WELLNESS)
http://lifestyle.inquirer.net/wellness/wellness/view/20091201-239411/7-reasons-why-we-get-hurt



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